Switch It Up: 7 Awesome Masturbation Techniques for Men—My Latest on Kinkly!

Masturbation is one of life’s most simple pleasures—but it can get repetitive. Well, yes, of course it usually is, but if you mix up your self-lovin’ stylin’, you can have even better solo sensations. Check out my latest on Kinkly for #MasturbationMonth: Switch It Up: 7 Awesome Masturbation Techniques for Men

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Sex Stories We Love: Ring Around the Randy, Problems with Pleasure, No Free Lunches & More!

It would be easy to fill this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly with #MasturbationMonth goodness, but there are so many other great bits of sex news out there this go around! Check out stories on Ring Around the Randy, Problems with Pleasure?, Time to Reboot, The World of Porn, Sex Talk is An Important Part…, and No Free Lunches.  

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Sex Stories We Love: Self Love & Silliness, All Hail Sex Nerds, Animal Instincts & More!

It is one of my favourite times of year: #MasturbationMonth! Give yourselves a round of applause for being super sex positive! Well, clap when you can. All month we will feature stories about self-love, along with all of the awesome stories we love to find. On this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly, check out stories on Self-Love and Silliness, All Hail Sex Nerds, Sex Work Understanding Wanted, Mind the Orgasm Gap, What to do With a Three-hour Wait, and Animal Instincts.

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Sex Stories We Love: Stop Stealthing, Considering Compatibility, the Parent Trap & More!

This week in Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly we’re going to have to look at some hard truths. Let’s face it, sex isn’t always easy. In fact, it rarely is. But there are ways we can try to make it better. Check out stories on Stop Stealthing, Different Matters At Hand, Considering Compatibility, Acknowledging Guilt, Not a Shillelagh and The Parent Trap.

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Sex Stories We Love: Hot and Not, STDiscussion, Man of Steel & More!

One of the most important factors that improves our understanding of sex, sexuality and gender is establishing visibility. It might be literal or figurative, but this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly show that making issues known will always make forward movement possible. Check out stories on Hot and Not, Transition of Understanding, STDiscussion, Sex and Parenting 101, Man of Steel and Furry Fallout.

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Toronto International Porn Festival this week!

Toronto International Porn Festival—this week! From April 20 to 23, 2017, this 4-day festival dedicated to adult film will empower, celebrate, and offer a platform for people of all genders, sexualities, bodies and pleasures to discover progressive and positive erotic films.   The Best of the Last Decade: Toronto International P*rn Festival Review. Thursday April 20 9:30pm at the Hot Docs Ted Rogers Cinema 506 Bloor St W. Toronto The finest films from the first ten years of the Feminist P*rn Awards. A specially curated selection of our favorite films submitted to the FPAs from 2006-2015. Public.Provocative.P*rn. Friday April 21 …

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Sex Stories We Love: Dirtiest Word in Relationships, Problems with Porn Privacy, Sexually Transmitted Understanding & More!

We’re going to play a little “Have You Ever” with this week’s Sex Stores We Love on Kinkly! Check out stories on The Dirtiest Word in Relationships, Problems with Porn Privacy, Sex with Ex is Complex, Sexually Transmitted Understanding, Going Down Solo, and Nipple: Yea or Nay?

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My Next Sex City—April 11—Sexy Archives! Carolyn Yates! Kevin Moroso!

This month on Sex City, we explore the many words of sex! On TUESDAY APRIL 11, we explore sex through the written word, how it is conveyed and who keeps track of our valuable resources. Dial in at 11PM ET on 89.5FM in the Toronto area and CIUT.FM streaming live! I will be joined by Richard Provencher, Head, Media Relations, Communications Branch of Library and Archives Canada to discuss their vast collection of sex-related publications Carolyn Yates, NSFW and Literary Editor at Autostraddle as well as a freelance writer who recently published the very interesting essay “Being Kinky Doesn’t Make You Queer” …

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Sex Stories We Love: Beware – Con Condoms, Reinventing Sex Ed, Freeing Pleasure & More!

This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly focuses on sex ed. Again. Why? But it really needs to improve and I’m going to write on it frequently until it does! Part of this sex ed focus is going to be contributing to STD Awareness Month throughout April. It would be great if there were no more stigma about STDs and STIs, and that is only going to come with better sex ed. Check out stories on Beware – Con Condoms!, Learning New Language, Reinventing Sex Ed, Freeing Pleasure, Never Stop Learning, and Icon Lives On.

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Sex Stories We Love: Super Secret Sex, Have a Seat, Some Privacy Please & More!

Do we keep sex too secret? Are we not secretive enough? What’s the big secret anyway? This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly explores the theme of our quiet and sometimes not-so-quiet treatment of all things sexual. Check out stories on Super Secret Sex, Walkin’, Talkin’. Comin’, Have a Seat, Some Privacy Please, Get the Glow and No Hiding Our Bodies.

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10 Things to Know About Teledildonic Toys (Including How to Use Them)—My Latest on Kinkly!

It is the future of sex toys folks and it is all hoverboards and jet packs! Well, not quite but there are so many different ways to connect with your partner, whether in person or from afar! Teledildonics are the wave to ride! Check out my latest on Kinkly—10 Things to Know About Teledildonic Toys (Including How to Use Them)

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The Technology of the Long-distance Kiss—My latest on Future of Sex!

A kiss is such an intimate, loving and sexual expression. What would you do if the person you really want to lay lips on was far away? Would you use a device that transmits your lip lock to your partner? People have been working on long-distance kissing appliances for a while now. Check out the progress in The Technology of the Long-distance Kiss—my latest on Future of Sex!

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Sex Stories We Love: A Bold Statement, Price of Beauty, Sounds of Pain & More!

There are lots of common sexual dilemmas that we deal with. And then there are the extraordinary situations! This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly looks at some aspects of the world of sex that not everybody will encounter…but maybe they will have some resonance with you. Check out stories on A Bold Statement, Prison Sex or Food, Price of Beauty, Too Much Time Spent on This, Hug a Therapist, Sounds of Pain.

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Sex Stories We Love: The New Submission, All Work & No Play, & Sex and Death

Sex is part of the world around us and the world within us. So many factors influence our ability to pursue and enjoy pleasure. Some we can control, some we cannot. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly consider just some of these influences and how they might fit into your world. Check out stories in The New Submissions, More Than A Liplock, Reconciling Fantasy, All Work & No Play, Sex & Death, and Grey Matter.

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Sex City—March 14—Guest Host Tynan Rhea! With Tracy Tief, Tumaina, Isabel Nantaba

I’m taking this month of Sex City, but we have a fantastic guest host you’re quite familiar with—Tynan Rhea! On TUESDAY MARCH 14, Tynan welcomes some great guests to discuss holistic sexual health. Dial in at 11PM ET on 89.5FM in the Toronto area and CIUT.FM streaming live! Tynan will be joined by Tracey Tief of Anarres Apothecary to talk about holistic sexual health, Tumaina of Tuly Maimouna and Isabel Nantaba, the community health worker at Womens Health In Womens Hands to talk about holistic approaches to reducing STI STIGMA. Tune in, 11pm – midnight on TUESDAY MARCH 14 to CIUT 89.5FM in …

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Sex Stories We Love: Another Consent Collapse, Poly Mono Divide, Penis Party & More!

It is impossible to avoid awkward, uncomfortable and sometimes maddening situations when you’re dealing with sex. That is inevitable. However, how we and society-at-large deal with these situations is key. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly explores some good ways…and some bad. Check out stories on Another Consent Collapse, What’s a Friend For, Poly Mono Divide, Just Like Any Other Illness, Penis Party, Footie Fun.

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Sex Stories We Love: Eye of the Beholder, Turnabout Is Fair Play, Ice Ice Baby & More!

Life is full of cautionary tales that we should all heed. Of course, sex is definitely included in that. This week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly is all about taking what we can from the sex triumphs and travails of our friends and fellow sex explorers. Check out stories on Eye of the Beholder, Flared Base, Folks, No Vagina? Stop Inventing Products for Them, Turnabout is Fair Play, Music to Our Ears, and Ice Ice Baby?

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Opening the Floodgates: Now We Can Talk About Watersports

Sometimes taboo sexual subjects seep into the public realm and become acceptable slowly and carefully. And sometimes somebody turns on a garden hose and stands in the yard waving it around wildly. This is not to say that watersports are a wholly accepted part of everybody sexual repertoire, but when reports of Donald Trump’s supposed interest became international news, sexy pee play was certainly a topic open for discussion. With valuable input from my friend Luna Matatas, I explore the wet and wild potential of bringing piss play into your sex life in Opening the Floodgates: Now We Can Talk About Watersports—my …

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