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Daily Sex Discussion #55 Have you ever broken out in laughter during sex (for the good or the bad)? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

I am definitely a little late in reading Chester Brown’s fantastic graphic novel about being a john Paying For It. It is a frank and honest discussion on paying for sex and romantic relationships that is rareky considered.I don’t necessarily agree with all of his thoughts on love and I think some of his opinions on sex workers are a bit naive and heroic, Brown’ arguments for decriminalizing sex work are.spot on. Chexk out a great interview my collegue, Louise Bak, on Sex City did with Chester.

I’m well aware that there are many, many reviews out there for Fleshlight products. In fact, I didn’t really intend to do a write up of the product, I just requested it as research for my upcoming Sex Toys for Savvy Boys workshop. Really, I knew I couldn’t do a talk about sex toys for men without including the wildly successful Fleshlight. So it made perfect sense to give it a whirl.Now, I will readily admit that I’ve mocked this toy since I heard of it. And pretty much all “fakies.” No disrespect to those who use and enjoy them, …

I’m very happy to be hosting a new workshop at Come As You Are! SEX TOYS FOR SAVVY BOYSDiscerning dudes and clever chaps will want to come out for this fun and informative look at the ever-growing range of sex toys and devices that are now offered for a fellow’s fun! Focussing on hot, good times and positive sexual health, we’ll explore toys and products that stimulate the penis, anal area, nipples and many other parts of the body. Whether you plan to play alone or with others, this sexy selection of toys for savvy boys will surely stimulate you! …

When I first started reading Dr. Teesha Morgan’s article about a service for ending relationships (kinda like a dump-o-gram?), I was mildly amused. Truth time: I broke off a long-term relationship via Instant Messenger. Now, most of our relationship was via chat because of circumstances, but still, it was a cheap way to end things. I should have done better.However, getting dumped over the phone is not as distasteful as sending an anonymous e-card to inform a past sexual partner that you have tested positive for an STI and that person should get tested. That just seems a mark of …

Daily Sex Discussion #54 Have you ever participated in gender role play during sex? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

There is very little I can say about this. I got nothin’. Other than WOW. Joseph Sciambra, Self-Described ‘Ex-Gay Porn Star,’ Claims Gay Men Anally Give Birth to the Devil (VIDEO) Oh wait, I can also say WTF????

If you’ve ever wondered or been confused about the organic nature of our language of sex, sexuality and gender, here is a fantastic guide by Sonya JF Barnett. SexPlusLexicon: Getting it Right

Daily Sex Discussion #53 Do you consider yourself any of a voyeur, an exhibitionist, both or neither? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

Calling all Toronto (and area) Sex Bloggers! Come out for casual chat and drinks! Monday January 7 7pm O’Grady’s518 Church StreetToronto #TOsexbloggers

The Toronto Erotica Writer and Readers Meetup returns Wednesday January 23! 7-10pmTequila Bookworm512 Queen St. West, Toronto$5 cover Join us for a great, sexy and saucy evening of smutty words and wicked writing! We’re going to focus more on writing and reading and fun! The November edition featured all of these and we’re going to continue on! I’ll bring a wide array of sexy images for us to use as inspiration and I hope some of you will bring not only your own work, but also some sex manuals we can turn into unintentional erotica! Be sure to check Sex …

I do enjoy reading the results of the NOW Magazine Love & Sex Survey. I find some of it silly and ridiculous, but sometimes people’s answers are curious. Take the survey here.

I read this article with great curiosity. I’ve had many odd, wonderful and weird dreams in my time, but the reason Dr. Spurr’s piece got me so excited is because I very rarely have sex dreams. Like, one every few years, if I’m lucky.I’ve always thought this odd, considering how much I think about sex during my waking hours. Sometimes in pervy ways, of course, but also in my research, writing and broadcasting.Maybe it is because I am so uninhibited in my waking life that my unconscious mind doesn’t need to keep any secrets to come out in my dreaming …

I’ve noticed the #dailysexdiscussion get more looks in the middle of the night (my nighttime, that is), so I’m going to start publishing them late in the evening and then throughout the next day. I really like reading the responses and look forward to more fascinating observations this year!

Daily Sex Discussion #52 Have you ever had sex in the snow? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

I received a Fleshlight (this one) yesterday, for research for my upcoming Sex Toys for Savvy Boys workshop. Having never tried one before, I was eager and giggly about trying it out. Let’s just say (for now), that I was very surprised.Look for a review (and info on the workshop) soon!

Daily Sex Discussion #51 What is your sexual new year resolution? Reply with your response to #dailysexdiscussion

Great article by Dr. Trina Read, mich to consider.