The Jian Ghomeshi scandal has rocked the media and sexual landscape, bringing to the fore an all-important word and concept that has been pushed to the background for too long: consent.
On TUESDAY DECEMBER 9 at 11PM, a special edition of Sex City will be all about consent and what it means from a legal, kink and personal perspective.
I will be joined by special guest co-host Lisa Bucher for this discussion, and we’re bringing experts and educators together for the conversation
- Raymond Motee is Sex City’s frequent legal analyst who will outline the legal implications of sexual consent.
- Matt Scott and Shadow-girl are the co-founders of Ontario Kink, and they will discuss how Ghomesi’s implication of BDSM and consent has impacted that community.
- Heather Elizabeth and JP Robichaud recently presented “A Conversation on Consent” and they will offer ways to talk about—receiving and giving—consent.
Tune in, 11pm – midnight on TUESDAY DECEMBER 9 to CIUT 89.5FM in the Toronto area or stream live online!
I’m so happy this article has come out on Kinkly! Cosplay is such a fun topic to research, and bridges my interests in nerdy culture that I explore on another project, Flock of Nerds, and sex and sexuality.
Check it out!
Dressed to Thrill: Bringing Cosplay Into the Bedroom
Don’t forget to catch The Night is Dark and Full of Tassels: GAME OF THRONES BURLESQUE III this Saturday, November 29!
I concur with this post on the reasons why shower sex is just not good. Sex in the show is definitely one for fantasy, not so much for reality. Kinda like beach sex—looks really hot in a movie, but really, not so great in practice.
I wanted to give us all a little reprieve from the Ghomeshi saga with my latest Sex Stories We Love over on Kinkly. So instead, we’re talkin’ drone porn, confusing sex euphemisms, surprise vibrators, artsy strip clubs and the secrets to Starbucks success. A week for the lighter side of sex, folks!
My friends at Passionly (I interviewed Erica Grigg on Sex City a year-ish ago) have launched a Kickstarter campaign to further develop their app and get their book published! Passionly is a great guide to keeping the monotony out of marriage and Erica and Tim will definitely show you some great tips, resources—all while you have some fun along the way.
Considering supporting Passionly on Kickstarter!
Launch of “Secrets of the Sex Masters” and “Succulent Sexcraft”
Thursday, November 13
7:30pm – 10:30pm
61 Ossington Ave
You are invited to a Sexy Book Launch, Mini- Class and Party to celebrate the launch of our two hot new sex books:
**Succulent SexCraft: Your Hands-On Guide to Erotic Play & Practice by Sheri Winston
**Secrets of the Sex Masters by Carl Frankel with Carlyle Jansen, Jon Pressick, Sheri Winston (and others)
Come help us celebrate! Bring your friends! Spread the WORD!
Admission is FREE! (Cash bar)
DJ Jon Pressick
Join us any time! ALL FREE! ALL FUN!
* 7:30 pm: Educational Teasers and Ask the Sex Masters … Anything with
*8:30-10:30 pm: Schmoozing and dancing with DJ @Jon Pressick
Our books will be available with special party pricing. Plus, we’ll be offering fun prizes and freebies!
Labels, when it comes to sex and sexuality, might be the ultimate Catch-22. We don’t really like them, but we kinda find them necessary. This week in Sex Stories We Love, I discuss posts about asexuality, bottoming and sex addiction as well as the vag vs clit debate, sexspeak and a campus nudie mag!
I am delighted to let everyone know that you can now learn all of the Secrets of the Sex Masters! This remarkable collection of sex tips, instruction, anecdotes and fun is now available on Amazon! I was lucky enough to contribute the chapter on anal sex (yay!) and I have to praise editor Carl Frankel on the fantastic job he’s done in collecting this tremendous bank of knowledge.
Check out this line-up of Sex Master contributors: Carl Frankel, Megan Andelloux, Jaeleen Bennis, Charlie Glickman, Ernest Greene, Nina Hartley, Carlyle Jansen, Joseph Kramer, Reid Mihalko, Eve Minax, Caroline Muir, Charles Muir, Tallulah Sulis, Patricia Taylor, Michael Winn, Sheri Winston. WOW!
I am very grateful to have my words included in Secrets of the Sex Masters…and I think you will be very grateful when you read all it has to offer!
Sometimes themes emerge when I happen across sex news items. For this week’s Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly, I couldn’t help but notice a number of stories involving some sexual stigma. Take a look at stories involving slut shaming, incest, intersex, virginity, rape and male masturbation.
Yet another instance of society’s general sex-negative, puritanical nature. Facebook’s banning of this cute, educational video on female condoms is just ludicrous. Sex ed it not bad—it can be fun, like this, and it is necessary!