Sex Education

Sometimes taboo sexual subjects seep into the public realm and become acceptable slowly and carefully. And sometimes somebody turns on a garden hose and stands in the yard waving it around wildly. This is not to say that watersports are a wholly accepted part of everybody sexual repertoire, but when reports of Donald Trump’s supposed interest became international news, sexy pee play was certainly a topic open for discussion. With valuable input from my friend Luna Matatas, I explore the wet and wild potential of bringing piss play into your sex life in Opening the Floodgates: Now We Can Talk About Watersports—my …

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Sometimes we want sex that is fast and fantastic that ends in an explosion of ecstasy. Other times we want to carry the awesome feelings for as long as possible. Get close and pull back. Get right to that delicious edge… Edging is a gaining in popularity and more and more people are learning all of its intricacies. To help folks to discover the joys of edging with 9 Tips for Playing Along the Edge of Orgasm on Kinkly!

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One of the most common reasons people have for not trying anal sex is that they thing it will hurt. Worse yet, many people try anal sex and find out it does hurt. But it doesn’t have to. There are many ways to ease or entirely prevent the discomfort that can occur while pursuing anal pleasure. Check out these 7 Tips for Having Anal Sex That Doesn’t Hurt and see if any might work for you!

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Hi, I wrote the following for a client, but it was ultimately rejected. The client and I both made mistakes and misunderstood things. That I can accept. I cannot accept insults. So, I’m putting this here because I want it published. Somewhere. Today. Who says we should grow out of playing with toys? Why would we want to when playthings just get better and better as we grow up! Sex toys have become a great way for everybody to truly realize their sexual potential and experience all of the amazing feelings and sensations our bodies are capable of. One of …

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Check out this month’s installment of The Seven Deadly Sex Sins on Cara Sutra! This time we’re looking at gluttony with a specific focus on the highly controversial subject of sex addiction. Gluttony: Is Your Bed Too Big?

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I specifically waited until end of this series to write on sight and sex. So much of our sexuality is infused with references to and a desire to see. The visual of sex has become the de facto sense of sex, with the other four moreso working on the periphery (touch is obviously up there though). Check out Sight To Behold: The Look Of Sex to see if you agree. Also check out the four previous parts this series: Lick Your Lips: The Taste of Sex A Rose By Any Other Name: Sensual Scents Reach Out: The Sexuality of Touch Listening In: The …

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I really wanted to write about the relationship between sleep and sexual interest and abilities because I have terrible sleep habits, patterns and disruptions. And it really does make a positive sex life challenging. Call this one a little bit of personal catharsis. Check out Going to Bed: Sleep and Sex on Kinkly!

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