The Seven Deadly Sex Sins: LUST—New Series on Cara Sutra!

I am delighted to be starting the new year with a brand new series of articles on Cara Sutra exploring the Seven Deadly Sins—of Sex! Each month I’ll apply some sexual context to each of the traditional Seven Sins, with each post concluding with a related question for further discussion. The first instalment is LUST: Between a Crotch and a Hard Place

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Margaret Atwood’s The Heart Goes Last: Love, Dystopia and Sex Robots—My Latest on Future of Sex!

I think we’re going to be hearing a lot about sex robots in the near future. And I’m moderately delighted because Mr. Roboto is one of my favourite songs, ever. While Margaret Atwood’s The Heart Goes Last does not entirely focussed on sexy circuitry-based sweeties, their inclusion brings a fun element to a tale that already incorporates some ditzy with dystopia. Check my latest on Future of Sex: Margaret Atwood’s The Heart Goes Last: Love, Dystopia and Sex Robots

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A Rose By Any Other Name: Sensual Scents—My Latest Sex Senses Article on Cara Sutra!

This month we’ve moved on to the third in my series on sex and our five senses: smell. Check out A Rose By Any Other Name: Sensual Scents Smell is a divisive sense—especially when it comes to sex. Some people have very strong reactions to different scents and can be either immediately turned on or completely turned off at the faintest whiff. And what we do find scentually appealing greatly varies among different people. Also check out the two previous additions to this series: Reach Out: The Sexuality of Touch Listening In: The Sounds of Sex

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The Sexual Seen: Does This Sweet Potato Look Like a Vulva To You?—My latest on Kinkly!

This piece was ridiculously fun to write! Many thanks to Dr. Stephen Biggs for contributing thoughts on how and why we sometimes see sexual images in everyday things. And if I do recall, that sweet potato also tasted damn good. Check out The Sexual Seen: Does This Sweet Potato Look Like a Vulva To You?

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My Latest on Cara Sutra: Reach Out: The Sexuality of Touch

My Five Senses series continues today on Cara Sutra with Reach Out: The Sexuality of Touch! This time we’re discussing touch—something we might think of as basic part of sexuality, but it is actually wonderfully complex. Many thanks to Carlyle Jansen and Sandra LaMorgese for their thoughts and help. Check out Reach Out: The Sexuality of Touch on Cara Sutra

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Listening In: The Sounds of Sex—My First Guest Post for Cara Sutra!

I’ve long been intrigued by the sounds of sex—beyond the delicious moans and groans. What turns us on between the ears can often be overlooked. And getting to explore this as a guest post on the inimitable Cara Sutra’s site is a tremendous pleasure. Much appreciate to Girly Juice and Christopher Zeischegg for sharing their thoughts! Check out Listening In: The Sounds of Sex

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My Latest on Kinkly—Why I Don’t Want Teachers Teaching Sex Ed

Sex education is a big topic right now in my part of the world. People are enraged on both sides of the debate as the Ontario government institutes a long-awaited new sex education curriculum this coming September. I love the new studies, I am glad they are in schools…I just think there are better alternatives than teachers offering this education. Read Why I Don’t Want Teachers Teaching Sex Ed on Kinkly!

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Two Best Sex Writing of the Year Events in NYC—This Week!

I am heading down to New York City for two Best Sex Writing of the Year events this week! On Wednesday and Thursday, please join Stoya, David Henry Sterry, Lux Alptraum and myself in launching, reading from and discussing the book and pretty much all kinds of sex talk. NYC Launch of Best Sex Writing of the Year Wednesday, April 29 at 7:00pm Bureau of General Services-Queer Division 208 West 13th St Room 210, New York, New York Join Cleis Press in launching Best Sex Writing of the Year—a thought-provoking collection that traverses the spectrum of the contemporary sexual landscape. Editor …

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