Fantastic (and too brief) consideration of the idea that our individual fantasies and fetishes are both weird/not weird. I’d actually love to see more of an exploration of the final point Tracy Clark-Flory makes: is your kinkiness being weird what gets you off? Do you crave the difference, the taboo to get all worked up? If that thing you’re into ever became a mainstream activity or if you found a person who was into it as much as you, would you lose interest and feel an emptiness in your sex? I’d love to talk to anyone who has experienced this.