I have to say that I am truly amazed that the trailer for Fifty Shades of Grey has caused such a strong and hateful reaction from the sex community. You know, a community that regularly preached acceptance, understanding of kink and sexuality, “don’t judge us!”
If you have a valid reason to critique the books and possibly the film, welcome to the discourse. There are some, for sure. But adding your snarky little quip does nothing but stigmatize those people the books/film do speak to–whether you agree with or not.
Sexual shaming does extend to those with a more mainstream bent too.